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The Midlife Brain

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As I've been prepping for my menopause/hormone appointment coming up next month with my new OB/GYN (YAY!), I've been really honing in on my peri symptoms I want to address with hormone treatment. Brain fog and disrupted sleep is at the top of my list, especially since both of my grandmothers suffered from dementia later in life, and my father has been diagnosed with mild cognitive impairment.

As the Universe leads you to what you need, I came across Dr. Mary Claire Haver's fairly new podcast, unPaused, specifically these episodes on Brain health, from which I've transcribed some key tips in the post below. 


The Midlife Brain Protection Plan

ISSUE: BRAIN FOG

BRAIN FOG is a symptom that is fixable. It can mean several things: increased trouble with cognition, fatigue, forgetfulness, slowness in thinking, trouble concentrating or remembering. Exasperated by the loss of estrogen or a high cortisol state. Your brain consumes 20% of your total energy that you take in. Glucose is the fuel your brain needs - it is a building block for Glutamate (the most prevalent neurotransmitter in the entire brain) needed to synthesize GABA and plays a critical role in brain functions such as cognitive function, learning, and memory. Estrogen helps meditate glucose in your blood to get into the cell body to be used - for cognitive function and energy.

When we start to see a dip in estrogen, our brain is not as supported, glucose metabolism not working as well, sleep disruption happens, lower tolerance to stress.  

NOTE: Alzheimers starts quietly in our 30s-40s and can take many decades before being detected - thus, let's start being proactive nowabout brain health!


1. Prioritizing DEEP SLEEP/slow wave sleep - this is the only time the brain can take care of itself, when the body is completely still and at rest, activating your Glymphatic system to flush out toxins, oxidative stress, plaques, inflammation of the day.

Sleep hygiene is a very important protective factor in brain health.

Sleep Deprivation is a RISK FACTOR for Alzheimers. If sleep is fragmented & you lose that window of deep sleep, over time the accumulation of toxins has consequences on brain health.

ISSUE: SLEEP DISRUPTION - Every night waking up in the middle of the night to pee.

WHY IS THIS HAPPENING: If Cortisol (our stress hormone) is high in the body, it suppresses Melatonin production (sleep hormone). In sleep, usually melatonin peaks around 1-3am and remains in the system UNLESS you're stressed out or run out of melatonin, in which case cortisol kicks in @ 2am and your brain WAKES YOU UP.

THE SCIENCE: The body needs a common precursor (pregnenolone, a direct derivative of cholesterol) to make both sex hormones and cortisol. If you’re super stressed out, the body is going to have to use more of the pregnenolone to make the cortisol, and that means it cannot make as much of the sex hormones = Stress sinks your hormones. Women who are really stressed out, may experience more severe symptoms in menopause.


TROUBLE FALLING ASLEEP?  
WHY IS THIS HAPPENING: Loss/deficiency of Progesterone, which activates GABA and is also has anti-anxiety benefits, or your core body temp isn't getting low enough (as with hot flashes). 

THE SCIENCE: To fall and stay asleep, our core body temp needs to fall 2 degrees. Cortisol rises according to the sun, and increases our core body temperature, which is what wakes us up. Ask Yourself: are you waking up because your core body temp is rising, or is it cortisol dominance?

TO COOL YOURSELF DOWN: Keep your feet out of the sheets OR Take a hot shower before bed

HOW MUCH SLEEP IS ENOUGH? Min 7-7.5hrs sleep
Even one night of sleep deprivation (less than 7 hrs) can raise Amyloid-beta circulation levels in the brain. Amyloid-beta prevents you from going to sleep. People with mild cognitive impairment and Alzheimer’s have trouble falling asleep because of the accumulation of Amyloid-beta.

2. EXERCISE and Brain Health

Exercise is by far, the best elixir for your brain. Women who are fit in midlife (who have a high peak respiratory fitness, measured by a V02 max test) can lower their risk of dementia by 80%!

Women in peri/menopause have increased white brain matter lesions - Exercise can improve those white matter lesions.

80% off gray brain matter is modifiable by physical activity.

THE SCIENCE: Exercise supports brain health through multiple pathways: 

A. Increasing blood flow to the brain - supports oxygenation and nutrient transmission;

B. Anti-inflammatory and reduces oxidative stress

C. When muscles contract as part of exercise, they produce a bioactive peptide Irisin, which crosses the blood-brain barrier - supports estrogen, reduces amount of pro-inflammatory cytokines in neurons

HOW DIFFERENT TYPES OF EXERCISE ARE BENEFICIAL:

Zone 5 (working out to your max heart rate) 20 min/wk "4x4": 4 min on hard, 4 min rest for 4 sets
You’re producing lactate - fuel for your brain. Brain prefers it to glucose.

High Intensity workout (5x week, @ 80% max heart rate)
Improved cardiovascular health - reversed age related decline in the heart by 20 years. 
= Better performing heart, stronger chambers - more blood being able to be delivered to the brain. Brain is the most vascular rich organ in the body.

Metabolic/Aerobic (Zone 2, 60% of your max heart rate) 30 min /3x week: brisk walk/light jog and still be able to talk
= Massive release of BDNF (brain derived neurotrophic factor) - crosses blood brain barrier and grow new neurons in the hippocampus (by 2%) AND can decrease your risk on 13 types of cancer.

Resistance Training 3x week
You release myokines (muscle based proteins that live inside the muscle all over our body and our brain) - improves your executive function/frontal lobe. Best way of staving off neurodegeneration. 

4. BEING KIND TO YOURSELF: (affirmations, journaling ) You send to your brain that you are safe and it downregulates cortisol, makes you happier and appreciate your day-to-day.

Originally posted in my newsletter July 14, 2026